yesterday,i went to Taman Megah's Special Needs Center in Kelana Jaya~i was greeted by few kids who their features were slightly different and few who are normal looking...
the moment i step into the living room, i was so dumbfounded...the children with cerebral palsy were all lying together on a big piece of yoga mat...all this while, i was only noe wat is cerebral palsy and dint expect that to be tat bad...the most oso i saw it in pictures that those people always bring around asking for donation...to be exact, i never ponder about them whether how they feel or even how they will carry out their activities of daily living before...but not until the visit...
they looks normal and cute...but did u ever realised that their feet can never touch the ground?
this is how they were placed so that they won't fall off...and it's also a kind of therapy, hoping that they could sit up without support one day~
some who are just like normal kids who are supposed to be going to school and communicating, playing with their friends were just retained here...this is due to those premarital sex without PROTECTION which are esclating now....don't they ever think about all the consequences?....these kids who are settled here are because they don't have birth cert!...they have to stay there, wait for their birth cert to be done under the home name...
-i met with one boy who is 14 y/o...i chatted with him for a while and this is how it goes....
me: boy, what's ur name?b
boy:ng kah how...(looking at his magazine)
me:how old are u?
boy:14...(still flipping through his magazine)
me:hmm...why are u here?
boy:no one in the house....
me:hmmmmmmm.....so who send u here?
boy:my mom....(looking at the magazine)...boring!....i wana play games...
me:hmmm...wat games u wana play...i can help u find~
boy:boring lar...(slammed the magazine on the floor and walked off!)
i was so shocked and din noe what to do...probably i asked too much questions till he was kinda frustrated....my lecturer saw it and she also got a shocked...she asked me why and i told her...she said those are abandon kids...they are usually more aggressive...but i do feel they need care, love like what other child has...worst of all, they are staying in a place with strangers who cant talk or behave properly...it's such a stressful life for them~i felt so helpless again...din noe how to help these type of patients...wanted to do so much to help them, making them happier but...kids are difficult~
the white shirt guy is the one who i was talking about js now~
this boy's body will never be straight like normal kids anymore....see how curvature it was~
lil vivian~
this lil gal, i love her so much....even thought of getting her as my adopted gal...she was also a cerebral palsy patient, if u can see the first pic has her whole body picture...her both legs were curved in....she cant talk, can only babbles, smiles....her parents were divorced...and she was sent there since she was one year old...currently she was 6 year old...i reli din noe how to help her besides doing much of the things for her...but would she feel happy?*my lecturer said that probably they will feel happy when we thought they are sufferring...maybe to them, having people to massage and do everything is a happiness~*....sounds quite rite tho~....
everyone want to have a beautiful life....beautiful family n sorts....everything perfect....but how many are there...but things are on our hands...we can try every possible way for things to be perfect or more precisely i would say...things goin on smoothly~
-pnee~
1 comment:
a well written post. when i read ur post, it brought tears to my eyes...
Post a Comment